It is what it is

Now before you carry on reading this I urge you to put aside your religious, spiritual or non beliefs for however long its going to take you to read this post, because I want you to basically close your eyes and open your mind. I am asking you to put down whatever wall you and the world has put up all your life.

The most stupid question is - why is this happening to me- especially when its not going your way. Regrets is something I also find a complete waste of time. We need to remember that the world, its people and its things will forever work together in perfect harmony. Its just like this global warming thing, its happening, whether we stop it or not...the world will continue to move. Lets say you late for a meeting, chances are something in this crazy life will happen in-between all that. Life doesn't see you as late, rather you were meant to bump in to that old friend that might eventually end up being your wife. Yes I am crazy and maybe a tad unrealistic (whatever reality is to you) but at the back of your mind you know I have a point. Life intended for life to live out a certain way.There are no mistakes. No regrets.

Im not saying you should accept whatever negative thing that happens to you, I'm saying turn all that into a positive opportunity. There is gaining and not losing in life.

A favourite author of mine Neale Donald Welch said these inspiring words...

 Did you know that Life is conspiring in your favor.

It may not always look that way, but it is, I assure you.

Everything that is happening, is happening just the way it must,

 in order for you to have the opportunity to create the experience of your Self for which you yearn.

The idea behind all of this is to give you a chance to

become and to know, at the highest level, Who You

Really Are. 

So keep on.

JOY AND PAIN ARE PART OF LOVE AND LIFE.Embrace it all because you know what...EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON and for the better...always. Life is always working on your side, never against you.

Get rid of the SHIT in YOUR Life.

I just have to point out one thing before getting into this....I only care about peoples opinions if those people play a mutually beneficial role in my life. So if you have something to say about my blog make sure you are important in my life or rather your opinion will make me a better person. Now thats out the way, lets get to it shall we.

I found myself in one of those conversations where you feel "God" has called you to teach types. A colleague of mine was going on and on about how shitty her life was. And me being blunt like a Samurai Sword couldn't help but blame her for her own pile of cow dung. I am a strong believer in the power of CHOICE...YES....everything is a CHOICE, from what you wore this morning to the number of zero's in your bank account, its all a CHOICE.

So playing teacher I quickly slapped her back to reality...people we need to stop playing victim and start living the life we want to live.

I for one made this decision a few years back when I realised that the world doesn't care about your level of happiness, its a jungle out there.

So get your head out the cow dung and take control of your life. The first real step to take is removing all the crap in your life, whether its people that continue to shower you with "lets kill her spirit" piss, the fat in your body that steadily plays with yourself esteem, that huge suitcase of bitterness and regrets or that job thats makes you NOT want to get up every morning. And guess what it really is that EASY! Dont even think for a second its not.

Take responsibility and stop complaining, we don't wanna hear it, hell you don't wanna hear it...and the reality is ...it wont change a dam thing! Im going to leave you with a profound yet one of the most honest statements I came across today from a very wise friend of mine;
Facing it is the first step—and first steps can never be skipped. Fearing it, avoiding it, and drowning it in alcohol, casual sex, partying, drugs, or other risky behavior only temporarily submerges it. Over time is takes more liquor, more dope, and more random sex to numb you from what you see in the mirror. Fun and pleasure are no substitutes for therapy and healing. One is a natural process the other is a terrible alternative that in the end you will pay for with your health, sanity, and self-respect—even the respect of others that love you.http://ramonsreality.blogspot.com/2011/01/tyler-perry-movies-enough-is-enough.html

I repeat everything in life is a CHOICE....get rid of the shit in YOUR life. CHOOSE LIFE! Its waiting on you!