conceited truth
For anyone out there that really really knows me... will know that I AM BLUNT! I am too blunt (maybe because I blunt too hehehe) but I've been an honest person for as long as I can remember.
Of course I lie, don't get it twisted, I'm human remember, to a certain degree I believe that some lies prevent hurt, even if they may be conceited. Anyway my point is I have been told and have also seen how my blunt honesty has hurt others because some truth can also be conceited.
For example a friend asks me if they had lost weight and they haven't so I naturally said "no I don't think so, infact you gained a few kilos's". You see, I could have simple replied "no". But I went on because I'm blunt - so I thought so anyway, however I quickly realised that continued because I am insecure about my own weight). hahahaha see how that works. Conceited Truth.
I love that I am blunt but I love it more that I am honest. There is but a grey line isn't it = bluntly honest!
Awareness of what you do and how you do things and why that way instead of that way can open you up to a whole new you, you didn't know existed.
They may be strengths of yours that if not consistently "maintained" can without a doubt be a weakness in costume.